Legitimate Intercourse question…?

Has anyone male or female been in a relationship where they had to maintain a certain sexual position that wasn’t comfortable in order for your partner to reach climax? I have this problem with my wife and don’t know what to do.

I have been with her for over 2 years now and sex with her is like a chore or like exercise most of the time (or some unpleasant combination of both). I basically have to maintain a push-up like position on top of her in order for her to climax. I have to do this for 45 minutes to 2 hours. I’m not talking about missionary position; it’s literally like doing push-ups. I haven’t had many sexual partner (I’m in my mid-twenties and have only been with 6 people), but I have always been told that I was a good lover and my penis is definitely larger than average. However it seems like there is nothing I can do that will have her reach climax besides this uncomfortable position. I try other things but she will basically guide me back into that push-up position.

I am a good actor I guess and always pretend like I enjoy it, but last night she caught me not enjoying it and she was upset. She was menstruating (and I don’t like having sex then), I’m getting over tendinitis in the elbow, and I had to stop halfway to take care of our crying infant. When I came back from taking care of our baby, I could not get back in to the act of enjoying it and she busted me faking (I know this is usually the woman’s job). Has anyone been in a similar situation, looking for advice and suggestions from both sexes? I feel like a creep talking about this kind of stuff (guess I am kind of a prude), but any feedback will be appreciated.

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  1. sablade, 04 July, 2010

    communication is one of the most important matters in marriage, marriages go wrong mainly due to lack of communication, sharing your problems money/sex/ etc etc. You both need to enjoy sex you really need to discuss your positives and negatives what you like and don’t like and be totally open. it’s so important

  2. hennesseywalton, 04 July, 2010

    Most women will just like a man to do all the work and maybe you might have a little gut like me which explains why she prefers the push up position, and even though you might have an average size penis the woman’s body is different, just because its a coochie doesn’t mean its the tightest or juiciest in the world. If i were you i would let her know that there are some different things you would like to try and you should not be uncomfortable when making love. If she gets mad and doesn’t want to cooperate then let her read this because I am not afraid to tell her there are plenty of women out there that would be extremely glad to screw a married or just another man all ready in a relationship if for nothing other than to prove the fact they did it.

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